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Why We Take Things Personally
Why do we so quickly take things personally? Often, it begins with the story we immediately start telling ourselves. Everyday events can quickly send your
Why Understanding Doesn’t Mean Agreement
One of the biggest relationship mistakes people make is believing, “If you understood me, you’d agree with me.” We often fail to realize that I
Why Influence Works Better Than Control
Have you ever tried to get someone to change because you knew it would be good for them? Maybe it was your spouse, your child,
Why Some Conversations Change Everything
Think about a conversation that changed your life, not a lecture, not advice, just a conversation. What made it different? Life-changing conversations often share three
Why We Argue About Things That Aren’t Really the Problem
Have you realized yet that in many arguments, the dishes aren’t really about the dishes? The budget isn’t about the budget. And being late often
Why People Resist Good Advice
Have you ever given someone advice that seemed absolutely perfect for their situation, only to watch them completely ignore it? Maybe it was: You could
Why Smart People Stay Stuck: Even When They Know Better
The Frustrating Reality Have you ever known exactly what to do and still not done it? In a relationship, with your health, with finances, or
Helping People Change Without Pushing Them
Whenever you want someone to change, it’s usually for a good reason. You care about them, you want the best for them, and instinctively try
What Makes a Great Coach? It’s Not What You Think
The Misconception Many people assume the most successful coaches are naturally good talkers, good advice givers and natural helpers. While those qualities can be useful,