Mental Freedom® Experience

We need to clearly define Coaching as Mental Freedom™

Our minds are filled with rules, beliefs, values and other information we picked up as children, into adulthood and still today. Some of it serves us but much of it doesn’t. I have developed a system for freeing your mind so you can live the life you want to create instead of being a prisoner in a mind you unintentionally created that is holding you hostage. Responsibility, Trust and Appreciation are the trifecta of mental and emotional freedom.

100% Responsibility:

Nobody likes to be blamed for things; it never feels good. So, when we make a decision or take an action that doesn’t work out, we want to find someone else to blame—the opposite of claiming 100% responsibility for your behavior. There is also another way we shirk responsibility: Have you ever told yourself or others, “I don’t want to do that, but I have to”? This lie we tell ourselves creates a lot of our misery. Instead of leaning into that cop-out, realize and accept that, everything we do, we do because we want to—if we didn’t, we wouldn’t do it. You may be thinking of many things you do, or have done, that you didn’t want to do: This is the brain conditioning we need to free ourselves of. You are 100% responsible for everything you do, including those things you deliberately choose not to do. No one can force you to do anything—you are a fully autonomous individual.

Let’s pretend someone has a gun to your head and tells you to do something you don’t want to do. You will likely choose to do it because you want to live. You can, of course, refuse and pay the consequences, but you will likely choose to comply. You may say, “I had no choice,” but that isn’t true. You could have said no and died. This is an extreme example, but it illustrates the point that you are 100% responsible for everything you do, and you do something because you want to.

The emotional freedom comes in when you get in touch with your why—why you want to do it. I want to do what the gunman says because I want to live. I want to pay my bills because I want heat in the winter and air conditioning in the summer. I work because I want to have a home to live in and a car to drive. I want to do something I may find difficult, annoying or unfair because of the benefits of doing so are worth it.

When you believe you are being forced to do things by outside forces, you create a lot of misery for yourself. Nothing can make you do something against your will. It may be unpleasant, but there will always be an internal reason or motivation for why you chose to do it. Accept that, own it and be willing to accept full responsibility for every action you choose—the good and the bad. This is the path to power and freedom. You are always in charge of your decisions, no one else.

The Unconditional Trust Challenge:

In our lives, there will be circumstances we have zero control of or influence over. A lot of trauma falls into this category: natural disasters, accidents, deaths of loved ones, job loss, etc. You don’t ask for it, you don’t want it, and yet you got it anyway. What can you do? You basically have four choices: 1) You can stay miserable and frustrated over what’s happened that isn’t fair and you can’t change. 2) You can decide to tolerate it by stuffing your feelings elsewhere, creating physical and emotional turmoil for yourself. 3) You can accept it as something you don’t like, but yet it happened, so you decide to stop being angry, depressed, anxious or frustrated over it. Finally, 4) you can look for ways to find appreciation for it.
This may seem impossible, but when you recognize the balance in all things, you realize that your brain tricks you by directing your focus toward the painful parts of the experience. Our brains are hardwired for negativity to aid in our survival. This is great if we are in a life-threatening situation, but if we are in an emotionally challenging one, we need to look underneath the painful part to the benefits and advantages that the situation is affording us. I call this the G.L.O.W. You are looking for the gifts, lessons, opportunities and wisdom in the situation.
Practicing 100% Responsibility, the Unconditional Trust Challenge and Appreciation for the G.L.O.W. will be a journey that leads to increasing power and freedom over your mind, so your mind starts to work for you instead of against you. It will result in peace.

Mental Freedom® Experience

Do people or environments sometimes bring you discomfort, anxiety or frustration? Do you desire emotional empowerment when encountering these circumstances, but do not know how to achieve it? The Six Pillars of Mental Freedom® can help. Incorporating the Mental Freedom® OFT framework into your life will deliver an approach to master any circumstance and a pathway towards achieving inner peace.

Mental Freedom® can be applied to nearly every goal. This process can be used regardless of what life is throwing at you.

You will learn the difference between responsibility and response-ability; how to unconditionally trust everyone in your life to do one thing, without feeling hurt or disappointed; how to distinguish between things you have to do and things you want to do; the two purposes your emotions serve and how to make them work for you; how to create closure and balance the situations in your life.

The Mental Freedom® Experience consists of six pyschoeducational sessions, where you will dive into the principles of Mental Freedom®. Once you learn and apply these principles in your life, you will have the tools you need to handle whatever happens to you. You can choose either an individual or a group Mental Freedom® Experience. You will also be invited to join our private Facebook group, receive a six-month one-on-one follow-up session and a one-year Mental Freedom audit.

Introducing the Pay It forward scholarship for mental freedom®

At Olver International, we believe in making Mental Freedom® accessible to everyone. That’s why we’re excited to introduce our Pay It Forward Scholarship. With a commitment to accessibility, we allocate 10% of our sales from Mental Freedom programs to our scholarship fund. From this fund, we offer one scholarship for every group we run, depending on the health of the fund.

Applying for the scholarship is simple. Just fill out our application form, and one deserving individual from each group will be selected to receive the scholarship.

Join us in spreading the gift of Mental Freedom® and empowering individuals to transform their lives. Apply for the Pay It Forward Scholarship today and take the first step towards a brighter, more empowered future.

“I would highly recommend Mental Freedom™ coaching in groups or as couples or individuals. It was very helpful to me and allowed me to re-frame a lot of things that have happened in my life and that are occurring now to feel better about them. It is life changing!”
– Conry Davidson

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