When you understand that everyone is doing the very best they can to get the things you want, then there is no need for a drama-filled break up. Why do people break up? Sometimes it’s because of a revelation and sometimes it’s slow building.

When it happens because of an acute revelation, one person has discovered something about the other that cannot be tolerated. When this happens, there is often disappointment, anger and drama. The drama occurs because one person is attempting to “get” the other person to go back to the way they were. “Stop being this way! Wake up! Don’t hurt me like this! How dare you? You promised you’d never do this! I need you!” This can be the drama that results from an acute revelation.

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