“We don’t love qualities, we love persons; sometimes by reason of their defects as well as of their qualities.”
–Jacques Maritain
If you are looking for the perfect person to love, then
I predict you will spend your life lonely. There are no perfect people
out there that I have ever met but I do believe in perfect love.
Perfect love happens when you have a person in your life you are
willing to support through all their ups and downs and who you love
just as they are without exception. You may see things that you don’t
like and that may not be good for you, but you love the person anyway.
Perfect love is about accepting another individual exactly as they are
without attempting to mold or change them into someone you would rather
they’d be.