Blog

Browse by Categories

Adultery and Forgiveness

Trust is the behavior you choose when you want a healthy, connected relationship. When you choose trust, you simultaneously let go of the need to punish your partner. You will stop blaming, criticizing, and stalking your partner—you’ll let go of the idea that they’ll cheat again. You extend your trust because you want to be a trusting person in a trusting relationship.

Read More »

Lessons from 2016

As I reflect on 2016, I wanted to record some of the things I have learned. (Thank you Crystal Alston for the idea.) My last

Read More »

Happy Holidays??

The holidays are more about being present rather than giving presents. How to reduce holiday stress so you can give the gift of your presence.

Read More »
Small girl
Relationships

How to Learn to be Alone

5 Signs You’re a Relationship Addict (& How to Learn to Be Alone) Published on www.hercampus.com by Autumn Dube As the fall weather approaches, single

Read More »

What’s Great about Your Day

This blog has multiple purposes but one of the main ones is to help people take control of their lives by putting their time and energy into the things they have power to control and/or influence instead of trying to control everyone else in their lives. A side benefit of doing this actually helps us move closer to the people we want and need in our lives.

Read More »

Synergy – Who’s on Your Team?

Think about the people you have in both your personal and professional life. Do they value you? Do they believe in your vision for your life? Do they create opportunities to support you to reach that vision? Do they celebrate your successes? Are they supporting and encouraging you or are they holding you back?

Read More »

Changing Corporate Culture from Coercion to Cooperation

The management style of the industrial age no longer suits the informational age. The bureaucratic, top down, authoritarian style is not effective with today’s workers. People are no longer motivated by rewards or fear of punishment as much as by being connected to the bigger purpose, having need-satisfying work, and exercising their independence and creativity.

Read More »