Self-Love: What is it Anyway?

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January has been designated Self-Love Month. How would you define self-love? How do you know you’re doing it right, or even working toward it? These are the questions I was […]

Foster Care: Do you have what it takes?

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May is Foster Care Awareness Month. Foster care is a strong interest and personal cause of mine. I spent 17 years working with a specialized foster care agency in Pennsylvania. […]

Coronavirus: Stages of Grief

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I intended to write about something other than coronavirus this week, but as the severity of the situation drastically increased, I feel compelled to write about the reality of most […]

Relationships-How great is yours?

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Some links may be affiliate links. We may get paid if you buy something or take an action after clicking one of these A bit more than a decade ago, […]

Awesome Appreciation-Are you ready?

Some links may be affiliate links. We may get paid if you buy something or take an action after clicking one of these I believe it is time for a […]

Law of Attraction Magazine

The Law of Attraction magazine is jam-packed with wonderful articles from well-known people. It has sections on money, health and love. In the love section alone, there are articles by Gary Chapman, author of The Five Love Languages, Gary Zukav, author of Seat of the Soul, and yours truly, author of Secrets of Happy Couples.

Radical Acceptance

We tend to destroy our relationships with the destructive relationship habits of complaining, blaming, criticizing, nagging, threatening, punishing and bribing, all in an attempt to get our partner to change. But we rarely get the results we seek. So one thing we can do is to stop using the destructive habits and begin using the healthy relationship habits of listening, supporting, encouraging, trusting, respecting, accepting and negotiating differences.

5 Tips to Strengthen Your Relationship

Today I was asked for five tips for improving the love between spouses but I would extend my answer to any loving, committed relationship.
1. Love as if this could be your partner’s last day on earth.

Healthy Friendships

Today I thought we’d talk about the friend to friend relationship. Included in this category are healthy intimate relationships, as well. When you are in a friend/friend relationship, external control is practically never external used. If you were to use external control with your friends on a regular basis, you would soon discover you don’t have any.